I did want to make a bucket list. It seems like everyone is making one, or writing about one. I don’t seem to have a bucket. I do have a plastic pail, but that is hardly a suitable place for my list. There may be a bucket around the house, but I lost track of it for lack of referring to it by name. Making a ‘pail’ list just isn’t the same. While searching for my bucket, I discovered my house all over again.
Of course, we all use things around the house we do not ever identify by name. However, most of them don’t disappear like my bucket did. There is a land of lost items in my place that have never disappeared. They remain steadfast in their service to my needs, always right there when I need them, but I never refer to them by name.
For example, my stove. I cook on it, bake in it, place things temporarily on one of the burner grids, and I never speak the word ‘stove’. It’s just there, everyday, where it should be, and I take it for granted. Actually, I’m not ashamed to admit it, I’m deliriously happy to have one. I can’t imagine having to cook over an open fire, or even in a stone fireplace. My stove is an amazing piece of equipment, and one of my New Year’s resolutions will be to call it by name, at least once in awhile. There, I feel better already.
The house is full of things I seldom refer to by name. A scatter rug is another forgotten item. We spend time planning to buy one, match the room colors, shop for it, load it in the car, carry it into the house, and place it on the floor. Then we walk on it for 25 years, and never call it a scatter rug, maybe not even once. It’s not that inanimate objects can feel rejected, but in taking everything around us for granted, they somehow fade. When they fade, so do we.
It’s refreshing to walk through my house once in awhile, hesitate here and there and remember the unique, and the ordinary, that give my life color, and meaning . Although the house tour doesn’t seem important at first, when you begin to search for something you haven’t seen in awhile, you’ll be surprised how quickly you will find it.
Aha! I see that bucket in the corner of my broom closet, now I can proceed with my bucket list. We’ll talk about a bucket list at a later date.
Happy New Year. ))_^^((

